Let’s just begin with these five and build on these.

1. Reactions are EVERYTHING! – From the moment you first see a woman to how she looks on a date to listening to what she is telling you; reactions are EVERYTHING!  A poor one says to us; “we aren’t important and you don’t care.”
2. What you say matters! Any man blessed enough to have a woman care about him and listen to him for any length of time; should know this!  However too many men do not realize that there words matter!  What you say means a lot.  A woman will hold to what a man says and look past his actions.  Men tend to talk less than women so when you do speak. choose and use your words carefully.  It’s easier to forgive something you did more than it is to forgive what you say.
3. HOW you say what you say matters! – You can tell her you don’t like her outfit, you can say that’s too much makeup and you can even comment on her weight but a good communicating man knows how to do it with class and tact. Example:  Her: Do you like this outfit?  Him: Well it’s okay but I really like this outfit better and tell her why.  Majority of the time, it’s about her wondering if you even still look at what she’s wearing or simple just notice her!
4. ATTENTION PLEASE & THANK YOU! – The same things it took to win her is the same things required to keep her.  Now the needs vary but attention is always required. Duh? Why would anyone work to gain the best thing that ever happened to them and ignore it?!  And don’t make her feel bad when she challenges you about receiving attention. She’s not needy she’s a woman, a delicate flower, rose bud who desire to bloom.
5. GIVE LIKE YOU RECEIVE! – You know all the little special things she does and you like.  The things you get accustom to having, the way she knows exactly how you like your food, the soap you like etc… If you enjoy any of these things and yet you fail to remember just one thing she enjoys?!  Then you aren’t giving like you receive.

These are just five things more to come……………Smooches