- Communication isn’t you sitting there listening. When we say we want to talk, that means you engaging in the conversation. Also your understanding is required or communication has not occurred.
- Talking is required. I’ve known too many men that felt talking was ‘conflict’ and they avoid conflict. Conflict is a disagreement with a co-worker. Talking to your woman is showing her you care. To know, understand and maintain a relationship talking is required.
- Women don’t read minds – When you sit there not speaking, yes it would appear you are upset but that appearance doesn’t scare us. That only makes us want to talk more and understand what you are thinking. A real woman cares enough to wonder.
- We don’t expect you to read our minds – That’s why we talk! LOL Seriously we tell you things about you and expect you to listen. There’s no test per say but when you mess up because you didn’t listen, you’ve failed.
10.We can tell when you don’t listen – The test of whether or not you listen comes when you forget or ignore an important detail we share. Women, for the most part, do not talk just to talk. In a relationship we are talking to build and grow.
MEN, there’s more to come……………………………………………..SMOOCHES!