- Putting a ring on it isn’t the end, it’s the beginning! – While you think giving a woman the ring and a husband means being able to relax and do nothing; as women we understand that we are building a new life together. In this new life you, the husband, must put forth an effort in all areas.
- When we are talking or having a conversation the long pauses of silence are annoying! – When you pause too long between thoughts or take minutes answering a question, it only makes women angrier not quiet. We don’t know if you are lying, hiding information or just trying not to talk; none of these thoughts will work in your favor. When a woman stops talking irreversible action is on the way.
- Attending Gatherings, Events, Having Dates is Part of the Job – It is funny how during the courtship men love to parade around with their girlfriends. Well as wives we enjoy the same treatment. There is no desire to just be mommy attending to school functions and having to force you to do the things we once enjoyed together. It’s not about having you as an accessory to us it’s about having the man we love with us during times that matter to us most.
- BODY LANGUAGE MATTERS – MEN may not do it but women look at their men all the time to see if what they say matches what they do. If we are out in public, your body language says everything you won’t or don’t. Whether you are bored, would rather be at home or somewhere else, or even if the girl across the room has your attention; it’s in your body language. When you take a lady out, make sure she has your attention and not just your body.
- It’s the WAY you do what you do for us – Once again, a man can do all the right things. Buy flowers, open the door, say the right things but since women are emotional creatures; we know when you are in to us and when you are just doing it to be doing it. It doesn’t matter if it has been one year or ten, we always want to feel that same love and intensity. Don’t half do, it will just make us mad or disappointed.
- Women Give as Great as Received – It may appear that some of us are too demanding but women give greater, more and better than we ever receive. Treat a woman well and the pleasure of her company, mind, body and soul are immeasurable.
- Meeting OUR Needs – Most women are able to go without a lot of attention for long periods of time. However there are those special moments that women want it and as long as you meet those dates you can keep a woman happy. Remember it’s the little things you don’t do that lead to the biggest arguments, disappointments and hurts.